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anderson · Apr 20, 2010, 01:03 PM

((((Wepow)))))
What the others said is true when a part of you has always lives a certain way it is hard for that part to change and to trust something that they have not exsperenced for them selfs.
In the begining We were so scared that we would switch and not finish some thing or not be able to do something so that when an alter felt the need to do something we tried not to stand in that parts way most of the time it was getting art supplies or even just going for a walk. The worst fear was that Each of us would no longer be. That we would wake up one day and not have that part with us. When said in a past post that these where the only friends and family you have every truely known. That was the same for us in so many ways. But as time went on and we remember more of our earlier training each of us has learned that there is more then one way of "being". That we no longer have to keep secreats from each other. The new house that you are trying to build is a house of openess and trust. In a way it is like building a glass house so no one can hide from each other. Just give Andy love and let him know that he no longer has to hide to protect you. Each of us inside of us thought that the others could not, would not like us, if they truely saw who and what we are. But when you look at those memiors with the emotions and understanding that each one protected you for a time from the memiors and abuse then they to will start to understand that they are an honored warrior not what the abuser wanted them to think and feel. WE are here with you remember that.