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anderson · Apr 20, 2010, 01:50 PM

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This was hard on us to when we first moved to this town we came to find refuge. The hard part was that DID was no accepted nor was the way we had dealt with it in the past. But when pushed come to shove it was my earlier training that saved our lives and got us back to gether again. The fact that their are people around us that like to go tell tails of black gossip did stop us from healing for a little while but when we found a safe place for our son. We no longer had to endure the Bs of self centered people.
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The reason That I am saying this is because we had to break the silence. We finely had to go to certain people that we had learned to trust and say "Ha, I need help from you and this is what I/WE need you to do." This was not an easy choice and yes we did find out that we did trust to easily at times. But if it had not been for the ones that held my younger parts and surproted them like their own children. I do not honestly know what would have happened to us.
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When we first found the group of people that accepted us we had to go to them and tell them. That you may not understand this but when I was a kid I was serverly abuse by my family and their friends. There are times that those memiors are so strong that I start acting like I am a child again. I need you to help me by showing this part of me that it is worthy of love and acceptance. The adult in me may not remember but as this part learns that it is safe. Then the memiors of you allowing that part to know more then violence and abuse. It will start blending with me. This is how We can heal from the abuse that no one want to accept but is real to us.
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We may still have to relearn trust these people over again but it was still because of them and the memiors that they gave my young alters that kept us here and help us to heal from those that would hurt us to keep us slave to a rumar instead of helping us to heal.