I have Bipolar Disorder and went back to work last August after being at home with my daughter for 3 years. I was at home partially by choice, but mainly because of the Bipolar Disorder. It took two years just for the docs to find the right combo of meds for me. After a year of being on the right meds, I decided I was ready to go back to work. I first worked with a therapist that gave me a 'schedule' to keep so that I could start preparing for the workplace. The schedule was very important because it meant that I had to get up at the same time every morning and complete tasks. My T and I kept working until we felt that I could handle going back to work. I am a teacher and as most people know it is a very stressful job. I was worried about handling the stress and trying to deal with possible episodes. To make a long story short, I have made it this far (almost through the school year) without having a major breakdown. I have had days where I had to call in sick or moments that I am not proud of, but overall I feel that I have made huge improvements. I am only able to work because of my wonderful support team that includes a great therapist and an even better psychiatrist. Some days it is hard to get out of bed and there are many nights that I do not get enough sleep, but it is so important for me to work. It is not easy and it is not right for everyone with Bipolar Disorder. I encourage you to try and get your boyfriend to a good psychiatrist. Hand in there and don't stop trying!