((((Atreyu))))

I think that copying the post in survivors is a great idea. And no, it cannot hurt to reach out to t. She will listen to you and it might help her to understand what sometimes we cannot seem to say. So many times we take in our writing as t thinks that it is the way to best let him know what is taking place.

So many times we will get there and then words seem to freeze up and if it were not for what we write then no one would know. Sometimes how ever you can get it out is what is best. With what you wrote it will give a step into what needs to be addressed and it gives an opening for you to start from or questions for her to ask.

Atreyu, you are doing just what you need to do. Trust yourself and your system. Finding ways to trust is the beginning of being able to open that communication within so that they can see that we are trusting them too. It takes time but it also takes all parts including you to open that door to communicate.

Keep posting and letting us know how you are doing. We care and are here for you and listening. Sending gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

dps