Thank you. Everyone has offered awesome advice. It is refreshing to know that even if my "friends" don't answers my phone calls, strangers in a forum can offer the best support.

As for financial worries, I am not too worried about that anymore. He will pay child support. I know no one on here thinks very much of this guy since he is an adulter however, aside from that he is a man of responsibilty and I do respect him for not leaving his family for his mistress. I make it hard being so awesome (that was afeel good for me) However seriously he will have no choice not to support my baby because I will not be stupid about it. My first instinct was to "protect" him and yet who benefits from that? Him and him only. Already in this relationship, he has benefited the most. He is a cop and so he makes fairly decent money, unlike a fast food worker busting *** at minimum wage or an unemployed bum. But yeah he shouldn't be messing around on his wife. We had sexual tension built up for six years and he never acted upon it until the begining of this summer, I credit him for that. This would be his first affair and probably the last since he has found that cheating on the wife can prove difficult when the mistress gets pregnant.

I need to find an uncrazy unmarried unpsycho man.