Jexa, Bt could stand for behavioral, but I use it for "Blunt" T. I thought of the names because Blue called her Ts dt and ftt. I don't like writing T instead of "myT" so I like the initials.

I didn't mean to hijack this thread but I guess it is so long anyway it doesn't matter by now, I hope.

Jexa and Brightheart: I don't know what to say. We paid her thousands of dollars; it sort of makes me sick. She was opinionated, but she let me talk as much as I wanted, and was there for me. I still miss her a lot, so it's hard to be objective. She is more skilled in couples counseling and conflict resolution than personality disorders, and yes, behavorial methods.