UPDATE: I got a temporary restraining order on him. I have a hearing on September 30th. I am nervous. He has decided to call all my phones numbers from our once shared cell phone bill. Which is quite annoying. So after a series of unwanted hang ups at work and among friends I decieded to pursue it. I do feel threatened. I had dreams that he killed me last night. So I figured that I needed to take the necessary steps to protect me and my family.