Belle - he is manipulating you. He is not being honest. He want that cake and to eat it. He is not committing to one decision or another. Why do you need this? the drama, the pain, the not knowing, the feeling that someone else is controlling your emotions and the path of your life...

If you do meet with him - you know where this will go... And I think the question to ask is: would it put you in any way closer to all those things you want and need?