I don't know your entire situation hon but my son was like that in some ways. he did not want to work or anything else really. layed around the house while I worked, came home cooked and cleaned. one day he did something really bad and I got mad and kicked him out. he was 18. it broke my heart but I could not handle it anymore. I bought him a one way ticket to ohio. he is now 33 and doing so great! just bought his first home. guess what I am saying is sometimes we have to practice tough love and make them grow up. today he thanks me for it. he is a good man with a big heart. hang in there hon.