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lynn P. · Apr 21, 2010, 09:00 AM

My youngest daughter is 8yrs. old and in grade 2. There's a boy in her class who supposedly has a crush on her lets call him N. A month ago, another boy in her class said "N wants to sleep with you." I wrote a wrote to the teacher and she wrote back saying she spoke to the boys. She said she thinks it was a misunderstanding and the boys were actually discussing having a 'sleepover' - so it's a misunderstanding. She said to keep her informed.

Yesterday my daughter came home visibly upset. She was sitting across the isle on the bus. A neighborhood boy(different one) was sitting with N. The neighborhood boy said to my daughter that "N wants to have sex with you".

So this is the second time this has happened with N, but different boys quoting him. My daughter was so upset she couldn't verbalize and had to write it down - she spelled sex as six lol. I wrote a note this morning. I don't think the teacher can make an excuse this time.

I feel so mad and sad this is happening with 8 yr olds. Even my 12 yr old hasn't had sexual comments until this year in grade 7. Is this what society has come to?

I don't know this child's parents.