Monty:

I think it's a wonderful idea. He would be able to gauge if there is a difference, probably just as well or better than someone who is extremely close to you. How about your husband? Does he have an opinion on it? Has he noticed any changes? He's with you everyday, though and sometimes the changes are very subtle. You and I have something in common then, I'm happily married ( 11 years past July) and it does a number on a marriage that has a usual very healthy sex life. So if you need someone to talk to, pm me anytime. Keep us posted on how things are going. =)

Good luck!
Take care,
Kimberly.