That is really good advice... And things around here are pretty bad... AJ does nothing. Even the female tenant is complaining because he parties all hours of the night and she can't sleep from the noise.. She works and can't be up all night listening to the "drunks" playing all night.

Echo's posted a good thread on adult children. Pretty much said what you said, was to "kick him out".... In this case, it would be kicking him out of his own house.. He doesn't help with maintenance let alone daily or weekly chores.. He isn't working.. Although he goes back to school in June to finish two classes for a degree. Not sure what it is in, just something about computers... All he does is sleep, lay on the sofa and drink and party...... I am embarrassed to even say he is 29....

He suckered me out of $35 last night. He promised to pay me back today.. When I went to collect he threw a soda at me.. Splashed soda all over my sweats.. Been after him for almost a month to add the oil to the gas for the weed eater.. He can't even do that, let alone bring the garbage cans up from the end of the driveway......

These are only a few things I've mentioned..... There is a lot more.... Things are looking grim... He has pushed way over the limits... And I am truely believing the only alternative is to give him 30 days to move out...He is going to have to walk I guess because his car is at a garage for repairs.. I think he spent the money his dad gave him for the parts for his car.. So the car sits.. told him he needs to get it towed back to the house, because the garage is going to start charing him for storing the car.. All he does is flip out ....

I am pretty sure that if he spent the money for the parts for his car, his dad will flip out..... and when daddy flips out, look out.... because he will tell AJ to leave......AJ is using his dad's truck for a few days and his dad wants his truck back... sooooo I am sure the volcano will explode......the valcano being his dad........ and trust me, when his dad explodes, it isn't pretty.........................
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