Lynn,

I cringe to hear of such talk. Sabrina is right about the firm talking to. Not just N but all 3 boys.

I also agree with farmergirl. This is an issue for the administrator. Perhaps a note to that effect to the teacher stating what you are doing so she won't think you're "going over her head". Even though you are, make nice for your daughter's sake.

I know you'll do all the right things. Hopefully, they'll nip this in the bud the best they can. Whew, 2nd grader talking that trash...what a loser.