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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I'm not sure but maybe the "wanting Bt" will just disappear. It's disappointing but interesting not to have those feelings for Kt. We talked about how she's different, and how Bt thought it was for my benefit not to be as warm as she was with other clients. Kt says she disagrees with that. She almost seems like a friend, and I could do transference on the fact that she can't be, though. Or will it be good enough to have this nice, connected relationship with her? Time will tell.
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I think you are right about the "wanting Bt" might just go away. This has happened to me in the past. At least with the longing feelings that are so painful. I'm glad Kt disagrees with Bt's idea of not being as warm towards you. Maybe that is why you were "wanting" her so much, because she was so witholding. Perhaps if you are able to get some of what you want and need, you will want and need it less.
take care rainbow
