One thing that jumped out at me is that in both instances "N" wasn't the one to make the comment/statement. When I was in elementary school and jr high both, kids who were my "friends" (used loosely) said inappropriate things (not sexual, but things like I said I was going to break a teacher's neck, for example), and I never said anything remotely similar to that! I did however get in trouble several times...exactly what the "friends" wanted. At least three times these things were done right in front of me. So I wonder if "N" is really saying these things, or if he has some friends who are really not friends, and they are actually the ones being inappropriate.
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