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Originally Posted by rainbow8
Bt thought it was for my benefit not to be as warm as she was with other clients
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Ouch!! It is to your credit, Rainbow, that you still feel lovable after being told things like that.
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I don't think they have to do with my attachment, but they are areas where I've always been stuck, so I hope it will help.
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I hope so too. Since you have been stuck in those areas and you have also been stuck on the relationship with Bt, maybe there is a connection. That's what EMDR is supposed to be good at--releasing stuck trauma. So I hope it goes well. Even if it doesn't help with the Bt attachment, if it helps with those other stuck things, then that would be great. And you can do other targets later. At some point, after getting past more of the stuck places, maybe you will find the stuckness relaxing with Bt also. I do think it can be helpful to start with earlier things in EMDR, as the Bt attachment may derive from earlier happenings. Good to go to the source. Since you're going to be doing EMDR on something from when you are age 6, it may give you some of the same satisfaction of your IFS session when you worked with the 6 yr old part. I hope it goes well for you.