You can't grow out of ADD/ADHD, just like Autism/Aspergers, it is a developmental disorder, so you've just contradicted yourself. ^^
& my friend has Autism & he comes on MSN, & he goes on forums etc. So, it is possible... & he is a "true autistic" :l Everybody is different but to say no one here is a "true autistic" is actually very demeaning & disregarding to them as well as downplaying how serious their autism is. On here, social ques aren't needed, nor eye contact, or facial expressions, or vocals, or any of that which an autistic person would struggle greatly with, and communicating is much easier, for me it is, I can't express myself in person and I have a lot of difficulty with receptive and expressive language, and I struggle to talk, but on here in words, in rants, in blogs, in threads etc, I excel in how I express myself.
It's a very wrong generalization to make.