Pat, I don't want to take it on as my fault. He's going to try and do it though.

According to my joint custody book, if he brings up the issue, if he has the problem, then it's his problem to solve. Yes, I have a problem with her school performance and we've discussed it many times.

I talk to her when she gets home, see what she has to do, make sure she gets working on it, don't let her go hang out with friends and say she'll "do it later." How much more can I do? Go to school with her and make sure she's writing down all of her assignments? Because that's the only thing I haven't done yet.

And how do I say to my ex NO MORE BLAME POINTING or I refuse to discuss this any further, without him saying I'm being uncooperative. I need to protect myself, and if that means not putting myself in a position to be ridiculed by him, then I guess I have to be considered uncooperative.