Today my wife and I talked. She admitted that she feels something for this other guy is working on letting him go. She says she feels emotionally distant from me is scared that I'm going to hurt her again. She wants to feel wanted by me and she wants to feel loved by me. I guess I was buying her flowers and stuff, but during the presentation it wasn't heartfelt enough. Am I supposed to not ever show her that things hurt? Every time I see her am I supposed to show that I'm excited to see her? I girls want to see it in our eyes and they want feel it when we talk to them. Its there when I see her my heart does flutter, when she gets near my breathing changes, I love the smell of her hair. I tell her these things, but how can I show her enough?