Thanks guys. I'm going to do it tonight. T says its like a bandaid just to rip it off. Elysium- that's awesome dont think it would work w my dad tho plus i broke up w my exguy about 2 months ago and have been laying low since then worst guy experience of my life. Perna- I need to go to court because its my first one and if i pay double and plead guilty they will take it off my record so thats why i have to go to court. I just hope i can leave my anxiety out of the courthouse. had a nice panic attack in front of police man he just walked away. ugh i hate cops.