My ex said that once about me "the kind of person people like to be around. Yeah Yoda man, that's exactly it. My boundaries. They seem to be intact with all but the most disordered of people. I will use the "broken record technique" (i.e. I am really having some alone time tonight...not in a good place for company tonight...going to have some me time...now is really not a good time for visiting). Sigh...I get boundaries, but is it necessary for me to become an expert?! Maybe if more people made friends with themselves, I could have some peace not to have to focus on them. I want to choose where I want to focus my energies, I do not want to have to waste my energy fighting for time to use my energy the way I want to. Grrrr! Thanks for reading me rant.