I agree he was way over the line lecturing you. I had a gyno one time tell me that my miscarraiges were a blessing in disguise because I shouldnt have been having kids at the time anyways. what a jerk. i totally get it. and prolly wouldnt go back to that doctor without giving him a lecturing first. I have two kids now (11 and 1) plus my adopted 3 y/o... so three total and Im not perfect but I do my damnest to stay on my meds and stay stable so that Ican be productive and consistent with those boys. screw him for saying that... ggggrrrrrr from me too