I appreciate all the replies and viewpoints. I still think it crossed the line because it was unprofessional. I didn't go into details with him bc it is none of his damn business, but if I had, I would have told him that my husband and I have made an agreement with him that we won't try to get pregnant until we are moved back to my family that is a 21 hour drive away. We both agree that it will be "better" to wait until we have the support of others around us. We don't have the first friend where we live now. I made this agreement with my husband and I'll stick to it, but that doesn't mean I don't still have those longing feelings for a child. It didn't turn that desire off inside of me just bc I made an agreement on the subject. That's what the source of anxiety is for me, not money issues. I just have "baby fever" right now. I was just trying to blow the doc off by saying that about the money. His question made me uncomfortable and I didn't want to get into it with him. I think it was generous of me to tell him about the bipolar anyway. He's always really good about asking what meds have changed for me, so I thought I had to tell him that I was on Zyprexa. It was important he knew that, just not so important that he knew why IMO.

I basically think that unless he is my pdoc or therapist, he shouldn't presume to know what is best for me regarding children. Much less lecture me on it.

Thanks again for the support everyone. I knew deep down it wasn't just me that would get upset over this.