Ummmmm.......if a girlfriend is living in YOUR house with YOUR son, why arent THEY helping everyday with chores, purchasing food etc? How dare they complain about ANYTHING !!! I would certainly put up a sign that the MAID has taken a leave of absence, and if they want to continue to live there, they best learn how to clean, cook, wash dishes and do laundry real fast ! And you my lady, should lay in bed eating BonBons until they GET IT ! Perhaps your son needs to be reminded that its not only his g/f who suffers with anxiety, but that his Mom is suffering with abuse, overwork, and a tough job. Tough Love time before you dont have anything left IN YOU to give !