Hmm, Parker, I am listening to hubby and son fight. I yelled down the vent to talk it over with no fighting. Don't we all want to be taken care of? He is starting to get it. hubby is unwell and I can't lift so if he is here I need to be able to count on him for the man stuff. He is confused, trying. Girlfriend is very young and neglected and she will do all I ask. Her ankle is a mess and I am concerned that we should be doing more then ice and ace, elevation. You guys are so good for me as I start to feel less guilty for not being mrs. Cleaver. The stuff with adopted daughter is hard enough. I thank you all. BTW, youngest babe with OCd is going to a prominent OCD treatment facility in Nov. I am excited and frightened.