Well, my friend and ex neighbor (the one with stage 4 bone cancer) and I have been texting with her as she is in a nursing home. Everything was fine and then all of a sudden she asks me why I wasn't around about a month before she moved. I told her that I had a move myself and was spending more time communicating with my dad who is close to not being able to communicate at all. I also said that my absence said that I was just really busy but it wasn't about her. She then said that I shouldn't bother coming to see her or text her and that it is all about her because she is dying. You know, I know she is dying but I never chose her as a friend. She always would say something and there would be a barb in her statements. I guess I avoided her because I did not want to have to deal with that anymore. I have not in the mood to chase down people who do this kind of stuff. I feel absolutely nothing towards people who push their way into my life then get mad when I don't act the way they want me too. Why do I not care