the thing is it doesn't seem to matter, I talk to all these people but there is no connection there. I am unsure what I am doing wrong, I suppose that it's one thing to act like a friend and another thing to make the emotional commitment of being a friend. But I do not know how to go about actually developing a friendship, it is not an easy thing for me to do as I usually just follow whatever seems to be the most logical choice. I am not really anticipating being able to accomplish my goal in a timely manner. As it is I suppose I will keep doing what I am doing and see if by some sheer twist of luck I connect with another person.