actually I am not looking for sex in any way at all, that is one thing I'd rather avoid to be honest.. I just want someone that enjoys spending time together doing the same things. I suppose I really am looking for a really good friend, but I don't know that I will find one.

I thought I had made it clear in my opening post. I am looking for a relationship that can not ever really work out romantically, but one nonetheless that I would be able to become attached to the person. eh it's hard to explain. I don't want to have to become too emotionally involved, if I know it has no chance of turning into anything real I can then be comfortable.

I suppose you have to be familiar with SPD to understand why I am saying this

no, I am not looking for sex, just want to make sure that's clear