The way I sef it is that any one of us could pass away at any moment. What she said about it being about all her now that she was dying seemed selfishly stated. This "it's all about me" is a theme in her life...her last AA sponsor bought her a coffee cup that said "it's all about me" on it. She explained to her sponsor was always having tn remind her that it's not all about her. I guess it just caught me off guard because it is the opposite of what everyone else says. I guess I was just surprised she would text me for months and then suddenly realise I was busy while she was finally dx'ed with cancer. I use to drive her up to the er all the time. Kinda relieved that they finally found the cancer but it seems to have given her an excuse to embrace the "it's all about me" mantra. She always liked attention...she would get her nails done and a pedicure with her SSDI money and be upset when she ran out of money at the end of the month. Told her once that people who work can't afford pedicures and manicures.