Well, it sounds to me like you have done your bit. And thats all you can do.

If she chooses to lead this kind of life (also when approaching death) its her decision. If she always had been like that than why change now?

Dont feel bad about it. It sounds like a game to me. The 'now I ve got you son of a ...' game.

So there is a discount there. Which makes you feel uncomfortable. Thats understandable.

You are true to yourself. That all that matters. xx