I guess if it was me I would talk to him about it, or talk to your T about it first and get some advice. I'm sorry I don't have much advice for you in this area, but I hope you will be able to figure things out. Good luck!
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From the movie The Hours: "If I were thinking clearly, Leonard, I would tell you that I wrestle alone in the dark, in the deep dark, and that only I can know. Only I can understand my condition. You live with the threat, you tell me you live with the threat of my extinction. Leonard, I live with it too."