wow. just..wow.
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Originally Posted by chaosrob
ok well I dunno, lets just say I'm tired of people asking me how I'm doing. I mean my life has finally come together so you think that would be enough but they expect me to be excited too.
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So you want a fake relationship so "people" will think you have a girlfriend and have a life and happy and excited? Wow. Insecure much?
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Ok so she is 2 years younger than me and she has a daughter, now from what I can perceive she's had it pretty rough, guys using her and dumping her..
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So instead of using her for sex, you want to use her to make your family think you have a girlfriend? You're going to use her for socializing.
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It could be mutually beneficial for us and it might provide some stability for her daughter.
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So now you're going to develop a fake relationship with a child. Her daughter doesn't need your kind of "stability". Plus, you only want to be her friend and not her boyfriend. She could be friends with you and continue dating and being dumped by guys..so her child will still be unstable. Plus, who are you to judge her child's stability anyway? That kid might have it more stable than you think. Maybe the men aren't brought around the child and introduced as newdaddys.
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It'd get people off my back about getting involved with someone.
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Yep, great reason to get involved in a way with someone..to prove yourself to other people. Can you be anymore insecure?
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Would it really be wrong to manipulate the situation if everyone ends up being happy?
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Yes, because you're not considering the other person's feelings. All you care about is yourself and your image.
What happens if you manipulate this woman so well she ends up developing feelings for you and wants more than just this weird friendship you're looking for? What happens to this child who might have fun with you, eventually look up to as a father figure and you end up ending it? What are you going to tell the woman when she tries to have sex with you? "Sorry, just hung out with you so my parents would think I had a gf, I hate sex" LOL. Everyone doesn't end up happy here. Only you end up happy in your little game.
Why don't you just hire an escort? That way your family or "people" you speak of will think you have a girlfriend and you're not manipulating anyone. You're just paying for someone to pretend to be your friend/gf so people will get off your back.