(((roxyanne1)))
You care about your granddaughter and are worried and want to fix it. That's very sweet

It sounds like whatever is going on is a sudden realization for you and it feels like a jolt, a shock. Becoming aware of something that needs attention, doesn't necessarily mean it needs our immediate attention, and we can allow ourselves room for our feelings and time to think about what they mean and where to go from 'here'.