Zoo - I do think that is a great idea unhappyguy had. If you can let T know what is going on, then T can help you out to see what needs to happen. For me, I could not have stopped the trauma work if I had a 2000 yard thick wall. It happened when it decided it was time. The flashbacks and memories and pain - they just came.
Let T know what is going on - just be honest. Being safe is the most important thing in the world right now for you.