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Originally Posted by Beautifully_Broken
well I believe I am more mature than my biological age, I don't have a different outlook after years, and being an adult in a few months won't change that.
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Originally Posted by theodora
hi-I read and reread these two threads- Rohag said nothing belittling about age Kaitlyn--in fact he said everyone here is equal in their pain-the only place beautifully broken got that from was in the other response-meant well, but i am not in agreement with myself, and neither is beautifullybroken-to clarify and set the record straight-
In Weeping Willow's third paragraph she talks about herself and her brother's growing up and how they grew out of the emotional stages.
That it was just a matter of time to pass this stage.
Sorry, I tried to quote it, but haven't figured out how to do it-all you have to do is read what Rohag wrote to see there is no criticism at all, there is a bit of criticism in what Willow says in saying that "you grow out of it".
She apologizes, but Beautifully Broken does not want to hear that, nor do I--you ne'er grow out of it--I still have my masks--I still am as hurt as ever I was, I just am better able to hide it now.
And it hurts far more when you are a young person than it does at age 55 --believe me--been ther--done that-ugh Be well-theo
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I'm sorry if I put my foot in my mouth. I honestly agree with Rohag that pain has no age limit. If something hurts, then it hurts. End of story. I only meant that, in my experience, age and experience changes your perspective on pain so that things that cause you pain now can be different as you get older. Not that pain gets less as you get older, or that you look back and think your problems in adolescence were nothing.
Anyway, it doesn't matter what I think, only what you think. So if it hurts beautifully_broken then it hurts and I'm sorry that you feel like this. I'm going to shut up now, but you are perfectly welcome to rant here in PC about anything you like, regardless of your age.
*Willow*