wepow, thank you so much for your words. I was talking about this w/a friend IRL tonight and I told her what you said about it being like childbirth: when it's time, it's time. That really resonated with me, maybe because I've been through childbirth 4 times and I know what that's like, lol! So thank you for that. I may share it with my T tomorrow, too. Mostly I'm just going to go in there and be honest with her and trust that it will go well. I know that in the past when I have gone in and been really forthright with her about what I'm thinking and feeling she hasn't failed me. I am trying to trust that.