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Originally Posted by googley
Aren't you supposed to protect your kids even if it is from your spouse?  |
Yes, but when you are dysfunctional and you don't do anything to get better you hurt other people............
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Originally Posted by googley
But even when they happened they were not surprising. It wasn't like all of the sudden it started. They were just more of the normal.  When did it become normal? I just don't remember. It hurts inside. Why did it have to get so bad and have someone point it out for me to realize? I feel ashamed. |
Googley, I'm sorry!
When we are growing up we don't know normal. Whatever happens to us is normal. Shame is so normal too. I think that we all go through this. You can work past the shame.