I'm so sorry...such a jerk....and yes, thank god, he showed his true face in the third date not after couple of years!!!!!

There is no excuse for his behavior at all....if even his mother was going to die, he could have still waited a few minutes or leave you a note, or just come and knock the lady's room or txt you.....

but in flip side, I think he saw somebody in the bar that he could have not waited there at all....hmmm....such a player....My ex-boyfriend's friend was married and he was on the online dating site....can you believe that? he had two little kids and he didn't want to leave his wife....they even had good relationship....but he was on the online dating site, meeting poor single women giving them hope....and even he was taking photo of them and sending them to my ex-boyfriend to prove that he's dating.....my ex-boyfriend was so mad at him....he even wanted to tell his wife....

Just don't give up on finding that special person....because he's out there looking for you....

take care
Marjan