While I agree that spanking is not for everyone and that no one should be quilted into using spanking as a means of discipline if they are not comfortable with it - I still believe in a little hand tap with the word no when a small child is doing some thing out of line, I believe in not letting a little one get their way simply because they are crying or throwing a fit... time out out on the big old couch is another way to stop a child from doing wrong.

What form of discipline or redirection are you presently using?