Okay so I have been seeing this girl for a while now and while she is ready to lose her virginity to me it seems that there is something stopping her and I am really not sure what it is. I mean we have done sexual things but everytime it comes down to actually we are in the mood and ready to do it she just shuts down and locks me out and says no lets stop. I have not pushed it any further than necessary but I am just really not sure what to make of all this. it is all she talks about but now it seems she never wants it and never will want it. Im really lost here. help would be much appreciated.