My 14-year-old has been on ADHD meds since he was 7. Mostly adderall xr. Currently vyvanse. Without medication, my son is unable to focus, he paces like a caged animal, and is very easily frustrated because he just in unable to follow through. He has never been a behavior problem. That is not why he is on medication. On medication, he has been able to focus, he doesn't feel like he crawling out of his skin. ADHD is not just a school disorder; it is 24/7. Kids who are truly adhd will not become addicted to their medications. It allows them to function. I think you really don't have a clear understanding of these medications.