Marjan, thanks. Yes - I am well aware of the commitment phobs who cheat / lie / mislead / flee the scene...

Its could be anything. It could be he saw someone at the bar (high likelihood), it could be he got a call from wife/gf (unlikely as I think this type of men are rarely married but who knows - your story prooves it), it could be that he got a call from a friend who went partying and it was more appealing, it could be that he understood that I am not a fool and see through him, it could be that because I did not answer his initial msgs to me he decided to retaliate, it could be that his friend had an accident (not really....), and it could be that he lied about lots of things to create and image and felt that he cannot keep it up because I kind of saw through it (very likely). In any case - what matters is that he left a woman at a bar at 23:00pm and ran away. Reason does not really matter. He is a jerk and I think if someone can do something like that they are also dishonest people and I am so glad I found out the truth so quickly.

I now laugh at this really... he ran away... its really funny. I was shocked at the night and it certainly was not funny but now - he is a joke.

I kind of dont care now (nothing to do with him) whether I will meet someone or not. Maybe I am meant to always love my ex and never fall in love again, maybe I will meet someone else... who knows... what ever happens - I ll be fine. Thanks again Marjan xxx