from when i was about 7 until i was around 9 which is when i told him to stop my brother touched me too. I can remember my very words that the rudeness had to stop and we had to forget about it. He is one year younger than me and never thought of it as abuse because we were the same age. Are you guys saying it is abuse? I am also sorry to hear of the other carer written here but dont know what to say as i didnt look at it in this way. Man i am now so confused. I never told anyone before but do feel sick when i think about it. Makes me feel dirty