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Originally Posted by possum220
My mother passed away nearly 8 months ago. I have lost a father and a brother and other family and friends and I have come to one conclusion.
I think the process of grieving stinks. It hurts and its hard. Not ever ready for those sneaky little moments that jump up and bite you in the butt.
I wanna yell at some of them but the cant hear me. I cant tell them things they should have known. I never knew how quickly death just sweeps in at times.
I don't like the fact that they can slip in and out of dreams without my say so. There are so many things to wait for still. And yes I know its normal......but no-one ever said anything about liking it.
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Possum, my friend,
I support you in the grieving sucks department. I'm not fond of butt biting either.
My sister's were visiting this weekend. Our deceased parents came up many times. One thing my oldest sister said stuck with me. She said, I wish we could visit every now and then, meaning our parents. That sounded so nice, I wish it could be true.
I do have "visits" but not in the way she meant. I have a special place in my yard that is just for memories and conversations in my head with my parents and others. Who's to say they don't hear us?
Yep, don't have to like it.