I'm getting married on May 15th!! I'm very excited and buzzing around trying to get things done and set for the big day.

About a month ago, the woman i'm set to marry, my fiancee, is sitting on the couch on her laptop when I got home from work. She said she met a friend from the same city where we live and she seemed so excited.

She told me a bit about this person. He's a bar go-er, basically. He owns a taxi service in town i'm told and spends most of his free evenings at local pubs.

A few days after the initial online meeting of her new friend, I come home from work again and she's on the laptop, chatting it up w/him. She asks if I would like to go out and meet him with her. I figure, hey.. why not. Could be fun! So I agreed.

I asked if I could chat w/him and she agreed, and let him know I was taking over the keyboard to say whats up. When I type to him and say hey, what's up.. I read "ice cubes can be fun in the bedroom" coming straight from him.

That was intended for my fiancees eyes, not mine. So I asked her if i could read what else they've been talking about. She agreed

My fiancee asked him what types of qualities he looks for in a woman.

-- This triggered a red flag. Only, I thought, someone on the search would ask this type of question.

He answered & asked what type of man she was into. They talked about other misc. things mostly laced with a touch of sexual banter tossed in.

They also had exchanged phtos & arranged a meeting already at his favorite local pub. The picture she sent to him was of her and I next to each other if that makes a difference.

Regardless, I typed to him that I was curious why he was talking to my fiancee about her sexual interests, etc. Of course, he said "IDK" which is short for I don't know.

I let my fiancee know that it made me uncomfortable for those types of conversations to be had. She said all guys talk sex and it's not her fault. Well, the way I see it, she didn't say no to it and kind of added fuel to the fire.

We recently had a discussion and it ended with me being labeled as jealous, but still in a "safe" manner.

Now, because I dislike other men talking SEX w/my very soon to be WIFE, I am jealous. A "Safe" jealous, but jealous, nonetheless. She mentioned I was trying to prevent her from having friends of the opposite sex.

In my opinion, a person in a committed relationship talks sex w/their significant other, not some guy/girl they meet online who lives like 15 minutes away that they've known for 3 days and had several few hour long conversations.

Does this make me a jealous person? I really don't like that label and I protest it. I sincerely don't think I was in the wrong by expressing my discomfort to the situation.

She still talks to him, once a week she says.