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Originally Posted by MochaFrapPlz
wow. just..wow.
So you want a fake relationship so "people" will think you have a girlfriend and have a life and happy and excited? Wow. Insecure much?
So instead of using her for sex, you want to use her to make your family think you have a girlfriend? You're going to use her for socializing.
So now you're going to develop a fake relationship with a child. Her daughter doesn't need your kind of "stability". Plus, you only want to be her friend and not her boyfriend. She could be friends with you and continue dating and being dumped by guys..so her child will still be unstable. Plus, who are you to judge her child's stability anyway? That kid might have it more stable than you think. Maybe the men aren't brought around the child and introduced as newdaddys.
Yep, great reason to get involved in a way with someone..to prove yourself to other people. Can you be anymore insecure?
Yes, because you're not considering the other person's feelings. All you care about is yourself and your image.
What happens if you manipulate this woman so well she ends up developing feelings for you and wants more than just this weird friendship you're looking for? What happens to this child who might have fun with you, eventually look up to as a father figure and you end up ending it? What are you going to tell the woman when she tries to have sex with you? "Sorry, just hung out with you so my parents would think I had a gf, I hate sex" LOL. Everyone doesn't end up happy here. Only you end up happy in your little game.
Why don't you just hire an escort? That way your family or "people" you speak of will think you have a girlfriend and you're not manipulating anyone. You're just paying for someone to pretend to be your friend/gf so people will get off your back.
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HOLY!
Just who are you to cast judgement upon him?
I think you may have misunderstood alot of what Rob was saying. (Didn't you read his inclusion of the description of SPD???). Sheesh.
And even if you didn't misunderstand, (which would make your response even more inappropriate), it really isn't necessary to attack him by bringing out your opinion of him with such little understanding of who Rob is.
There is no need for judgement. Period.
(This is a prime example of "Everyone is entitled to their opinion, so long as they keep it to themselves"). Grrr.
You know...Sometimes, it's hard enough to want to talk about what bothers us most, but to actually express it for all to see THEN be attacked and judged for expressing it is SO uncalled for.
This is a community where we are ALL free to express ourselves SAFELY. Please, keep your judgement to yourself.
I think you owe Rob a sincere apology.
Shangrala