Yeah it really is. I've wanted so bad to text his mom, but everyone is giving me mixed messages on it. Some say go ahead because it's not their fault, but others are like don't do it because you could give them false hope of you getting back together. I am starting to feel better as the days have gone by. Today I wrote a letter that I'm not going to send or anything, but to write out some of my frustrations with him. He was very emotionally abusive to me. He treated me more like a slave and never did anything I would like to do. It is nice having support from all friends :-)