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Old Apr 27, 2010, 04:19 PM
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Too bad Belle that Mark isn't as nice a guy as Marjan is a woman. She tries to spare her ex from false hope while Mark feeds your false hope again and again and again. He's not a nice guy and he is ruining it for the great guy waiting to find you.

Enough already girlfriend. It is hard to let go but let go you must. The longer you play these games with him and yourself the more chances you give him to break your heart again and again.

Life is ticking Belle. Go find that father for the children you desire. Mark ain't him. He is still a child himself and would be a disaster for fatherhood even if he were up for the job and he has made it pretty clear he isn't. You just can't seem to hear him say 'he's just not that into you anymore.' Get the book!!!

He's not even friend material for heaven's sake.

I am not going to apologize for the harshness of my post because I know you know I have your best interests at heart and am speak from my heart to try to shake you up. I hate seeing you waste your time on him. You say you are living your life but really you are just spending time waiting. How much time are you willing to give away to waiting on a lost cause? Waiting on someone who owns your heart but no longer deserves it. I await the day you reclaim your heart, your life and your dreams of a future with children and a man who adores you. Not a man who strings women along and cheats on one woman after the other. OMG why would you choose a man like that? You wouldn't logically. You are just caught by your feelings. Sure you still love him. That's not a bad thing but it isn't a love that will satisfy you for long. LIfe is short Belle. Don't waste any more of it on someone who will cost you dearly.
Thanks for this!
Belle1979, marjan