Thanks Belle.

Like the others said - life is short! And there are things you want out of life. Can you really afford to wait for him to be clear about what he wants? I know that waiting till end of May is not long - I hope you will stick to it!

And can you see whats wrong in saying you will wait for a guy who has been with you for over 5 years and now confused? How can you ever trust him again?

My ex was never confused, he was always faithful and his heart and body were always devoted to me. But when he became abusive it was like he was cheating on me with an invisible entity. He destoyed my trust and betrayed me. When you are with someone you give them yourself. Your - self. And like Bill3 wrote to me so kindly - I layed my dreams at his feet and he was wrackless... I will never forgive him.

I wonder how, if Mark wanted to be with you again, you can ever trust him.

He is with Lisa and tells another woman he misses her.. What a louzy thing to do... Can you ever trust that he will be honest, consistent and true to himself and to you??