Thanks __Sabby__ for the advice ) well i can say that my bf and i sit together and talk about the things thats bothering him. He has told me to respect myself and be a lady and dress nice not showing. He doesnt like heels. And when he thinks im staring he says ill be staring for more than 10 mins which im not, also that i might be checking the guys out and im not.. sometimes i get really mad. > and the other day he told me he doesnt care what i do in my life. ( thanks everyone for your help and advice